Sunday, October 27, 2013

Date Nights on a Dime

Whether you’re single or married, date nights are fun things to add to your calendar. But going out can make you shell out more than the budget allows. Instead of banishing restaurant dinners for two, tweak your approach to ensure you work in some date nights on a dime.

Going to the movies can really add up with ticket prices and snacks.  To catch those flicks without all the special effects and need for enhanced theater sound, rent a one night romantic comedy for less than $2, pop popcorn at home and add your own toppings, indulge in some grocery store candy, and cozy up on your own couch at home.

Professional sporting events off and away are fetching mega bucks per seat, and that doesn’t include your travel expenses for the big game.  Look into your area options with high school teams and local pros in sports like hockey and boxing for reasonable ticket prices and an entertaining show.  Support Valley athletes, and enjoy a sporty night out.  Keep an eye out for other community events like plays and festivals for budget friendly ticket prices as well.

Get out and about by checking out a farmer’s market, market days, street fair, or even a series of Saturday morning garage sales.  A daytime outing can be spent shopping and looking at local vendors’ wares or for a yard sale steal to makeover for a weekend project. 

Pack a picnic lunch and drive down to the Island for an afternoon on the beach.  Beachgoers come from all over the nation to the spot on the map we have right here at home.  Collect shells, build a sandcastle, and wile away the day relaxing before you enjoy a gorgeous sunset over the bay. 

Put on some running shoes, carry a couple bottles of water, and head to a city park or jogging path and work up a sweat with a walk or run for two.  If you’re feeling adventurous, train in tandem for a race or other athletic competition.

Go back to feeling like a kid and show off some skills at a skating rink or bowling alley. Take a long walk through the zoo and chat about your favorite animals.  Feel studious by walking through a local museum of art or area history, discussing interesting topics along the way. 

Instead of going out for coffee, brew your own at home, dress it up with syrups and whipped topping, or simmer some hot cocoa and top with plenty of marshmallows.  Fill a couple of to-go mugs and take a drive just the two of you.  Later in the season, spend time driving around looking at Christmas lights and yard decorations after dark.     

Choose a new recipe together, shop for a few groceries, and try your hand at spending some time in the kitchen for two.  Spending the time in preparation together can be as delicious as sharing a specially prepared meal. 

A date night doesn’t have to be pricey or fancy (or even at night) to be a great time spent happily together.  Get creative and think inside the budget for fun without breaking the bank.

DesignInMind column; appeared in the Valley Morning Star October 27th.