Monday, April 2, 2012

Fool-Proof Ways to Love the Design You're In

Buyers’ remorse can strike at the heart of many; you make a purchase, large or small, and then doubt begins to creep in, and you’re not sure of your choice.  Loving what you choose to showcase in your home, whether in the grand pieces or the tiny details, can be helped along with a little mindset adjusting. 

First, make it personal.  Sure, something displayed in your friend’s home looked great at the time.  But your attempt to mimic it has left you feeling less than thrilled.  Perhaps that could be because you do not have a connection to that design item or overall style.  When you select décor - from paint colors to furniture to accessories - that have a story behind them for you and your family, that connection adds to your enjoyment.

Additionally, find the right blend for you between timeless and trendy.  The latest-and-greatest can be very fitting when you will be assured of your selection.  What you want to avoid is running out and buying a trend-setting piece and then, even just months down the line, stewing in that “what was I thinking?” feeling.  Determine where your comfort level falls on the pendulum between classic things that will work seemingly forever and new styles steaming up runways and galleries the world over . . . for today.  Stick to shopping in that feel-good range.

Lastly, just make it work for your space.  Doctor it up.  Mix it in with a current collection of yours.  Change the room it’s in.  Make it a focal point to give it purpose.  Let it blend into the background but yet not go wasted.  Once you’ve committed to a purchase, or you simply cannot or will not return it, use it to the max to get the most bang for your buck. 

 Happiness is a mindset.  Determine to love the space you live in, and follow hard after that goal.  Be confident when you make a new purchase or just rearrange your available décor pieces in your home.  Whether you roll it on the walls, hang it on a nail, or set it on a shelf, fool-proof your way to loving the design elements you surround yourself with and never doubt that you do have style, and you have every right to make it your own.            


DesignInMind column; appeared in the Valley Morning Star April 1st.